From the archives: Thanks for all your comments!

From the archives: Thanks for all your comments!

After being treated like a disease by women for most of my adult life I should be happy that a hot chick is complaining that she can't get a man but, unfortunately for me, I am cursed with being a nice guy and can't help but feel bad for her.

I am guessing there are 2 possibilities here. 1. She is fooling herself and isn't really attracted to the nerdy, nice guy she thinks she wants. Or 2. She really does like geeks but doesn't understand them. From the bolg on MR it seems like she expects that doing a little hair flip or a casual glance is enough to attract a nerd, that is more than enough for a frosted-tipped, shiny shirt wearing, "player" but never a geek. She doesn't seem to get that a nice guy has been shunned by women, only being noticed when a favor is needed, never for a romantic interest so a subtle glance is NEVER going to be enough to get his attention.

Maybe even a third option is her friends and/or where she looks for guys. Neither myself, nor any of my nerd friends would EVER go up to a table of women at a bar to try to hit on one of them, nor do we go to trendy places like coffee shops or dance clubs. It didn't take us long to figure out that since we had no chance with the women at those places there was no point in going just for the cheap, watered down drinks and crappy music.